Community volunteer, wide-ranging traveler, former resident
Dave Ratay. (Courtesy photo)
David Ratay, a beloved husband, father, grandfather, friend, and dedicated community volunteer, died peacefully, surrounded by family, Sept. 1, at the age of 77 near his home in Fort Mill, South Carolina. He leaves behind a legacy of unwavering kindness, optimism, faith, love, and extensive positive impact in his community.
Dave was born March 14, 1946, in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, to Alberta and Joseph Ratay. Growing up, he was inseparable from his identical twin brother, Dennis. Dave lived in many places during his life, including Florida, Arizona, Massachusetts, and South Carolina. He graduated from Bishop Barry High School in St. Petersburg, Florida, and went on to earn multiple degrees in the field of engineering from Georgia Tech and Arizona State University.
Dave and his family moved to Harvard in 1978, living on Brown Road and later on Old Littleton Road. His daughters, Jen and Shelley, attended Harvard Elementary and the Bromfield School from kindergarten through 12th grade.
Dave cared deeply about other people and relationships, especially with his family and friends. He and his wife, Karen Ratay, shared a beautiful 53-year marriage filled with laughter and wide-ranging travel adventures. As a devoted father and grandfather, “Papa” was a shining example of unwavering support and love.
A pillar of his community, Dave was an inspiration to many. As an active member of the Knights of Columbus, he dedicated countless hours to various charitable organizations and fundraising events, always ready to lend a helping hand to those in need. In his free time, Dave enjoyed golfing, kayaking, hiking, and traveling. Whether cruising through the Panama Canal with his sister, Sue, attending car races with his younger brother, Don, exploring Canada and the Western U.S. on RV trips with Karen, or cycling throughout New England with dear friends, Dave approached life with enthusiasm and a love of adventure.
Dave’s passing leaves a void that cannot be filled, but his memory will live on in the hearts of all who had the privilege of knowing him. He is survived by his loving spouse, Karen; his cherished daughters, Jennifer and Shelley; his four teenage grandchildren, Lucy, Beckett, Milo, and Everleigh; his sister, Sue, brother, Don, and relatives, friends, and colleagues far and wide who will forever hold his memory dear.
